Are you an introvert?

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Have you always felt different? Were you the quiet one in school? Have anyone asked you, “Why don’t you talk more?” Do they still ask you that today? If so, you might be an introvert like me.

Introverts are people who tend to be more focused on their inner thoughts and feelings, rather than seeking stimulation from external sources. They often prefer quiet and solitude over socializing and may feel drained or overwhelmed after spending time in large groups.

Here are some signs that someone might be an introvert:

1. You enjoy spending time alone.
2. You prefer deep conversations over small talk.
3. You need to recharge your energy by being alone after spending time with others.
4. You are highly self-aware and introspective.
5. You tend to think before you speak.
6. You have a small circle of close friends rather than a large network of acquaintances.
7. You don’t mind being in social situations, but you prefer small gatherings or one-on-one interactions.
8. You find it exhausting to be in large crowds or at parties.
9. You are a good listener and often let others speak first.
10. You prefer written communication over face-to-face or phone conversations.
11. You are often described as a good observer.
12. You are not afraid to be alone in public places, like a coffee shop or movie theater.
13. You enjoy solitary activities like reading, writing, or hiking.
14. You are a reflective person who enjoys journaling or introspection.
15. You are more comfortable expressing yourself through writing than speaking.
16. You often feel like you need to explain yourself to others.
17. You have a rich inner world of thoughts and ideas.
18. You may be seen as quiet or reserved by others.
19. You are not easily impressed by material possessions or social status.
20. You enjoy spending time in nature.
21. You often feel misunderstood by others who don’t share your perspective.

It’s important to remember that these signs are not necessarily a definitive diagnosis of introversion and that everyone falls on a spectrum between introversion and extroversion.

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